Rather than suing each other for divorce, couples may benefit from choosing a Los Angeles divorce mediator to settle their affairs. And in certain instances, such as custody disputes, mediation may be required by law before a couple can proceed to litigating any differences. In each case, the role of a mediator is to assist a couple in reaching an agreement that can be submitted to a judge for approval.

The Law Office of Mitchell A. Jacobs can assist couples seeking mediation services or can provide representation and advice to one party involved in the mediation process. Frequently, mediation offers substantial benefits, including lower costs and legal fees and the privacy of settling issues behind closed doors rather than in open court. However, there are also common pitfalls of entering into mediation or agreeing to a mediated settlement. A Los Angeles divorce attorney is best able to ensure that your rights are protected in a mediated settlement.

Mediation can be used to address all issues that may arise in a divorce, including property division, support and child custody and visitation. Significant time and money may be saved through the mediation process -- even when agreement can only be reached on some of the issues.

A mediator does not represent either party. His or her job is to find common points of agreement and to facilitate rational discussion and any resulting compromises that may be agreeable to both parties. An additional benefit of mediation is that an agreement reached by both parties is more likely to be adhered to in the future than a ruling handed down by a judge.

When a mediated agreement is reached, it is always a good idea for each party to review the agreement with an attorney before signing it and submitting it to the court. Even in cases where the mediator is an attorney, it is important to realize that he or she is acting as a third-party facilitator and not as an advocate on your behalf.

If you are seeking a California divorce or need to speak to an experienced family law attorney about mediation in Los Angeles, contact the Law Office of Mitchell A. Jacobs for a confidential appointment to discuss your rights.